Most of the time, children show signs of potty training readiness as toddlers, usually between 18 months and 3 years of age. This can be a stressful time for you and your toddler. If you start too soon, you’ll frustrate yourself and your toddler. Wait too late and you may face resistance from your toddler. Here are three signs to watch for to help you determine if it is time to potty train your toddler. Your toddler staying dry for longer periods of time, your toddler shows an awareness of using the diaper (such as going to a corner for privacy), and your toddler is asking to have his or her diaper changed.

If your toddler is exhibiting these signs, I will say it’s time to start. Especially if they are staying dry overnight, or if you’ve noticed the diaper is not as wet as it used to be in the morning. In the mornings when your toddler wakes up, see if you can get him or her to sit on the potty, even if they don’t have to go at first. Don’t make it a requirement; if they fight it, it’s okay to let it go. But ask everyday and they will eventually have a seat. Once they do this, let them sit for a couple of minutes to see if anything happens. Once your toddler actually uses the potty, you will see an increase in this type of behavior.

Another thing to try is to have your toddler sit on the potty during diaper changes and before or after a bath. Also, try again right before bedtime. Having them sit on the potty during diaper changes enforces the knowledge that this is where they should go, rather than the diaper. Offer gentle encouragement and remember to not scold if nothing happens. They will use it when they are ready.

There are a couple of things to avoid when potty training. Do not try to start during a stressful time or period of change in the family. For example, if there is a new baby or the family has just moved to a new home. Avoid pushing your child too fast and punishing mistakes. Let the pace of your toddler guide you.
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