Mornings with Mom » Other – Family & Relationships http://www.morningswithmom.com have you had your coffee break? Tue, 07 Feb 2012 10:32:44 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 en hourly 1 My friends/other parents hate me? 10 points pleeaaseee read? http://www.morningswithmom.com/2009/12/my-friendsother-parents-hate-me-10-points-pleeaaseee-read/ http://www.morningswithmom.com/2009/12/my-friendsother-parents-hate-me-10-points-pleeaaseee-read/#comments Wed, 23 Dec 2009 01:49:37 +0000 mom http://www.morningswithmom.com/2009/12/my-friendsother-parents-hate-me-10-points-pleeaaseee-read/
Okay this is kinda a long timeline I’ll have to explain. :I
Well the overall problem is that parents hate me
I mean the PTA (Parent Teacher Assistants) that always gossip about the ‘bad’ kid in the school and get mad if youre not ‘peppy’ at a pep rally.
Timeline:
5th grade- I started wearing alot of black and jewelry
5th grade- I started getting a little wild
5th grade- At a gay dance thing at school while some 4th graders were dancing I started acting up (more details coming up)

enterd 6th grade/middle school

6th grade- stopped wearing jewelry
6th grade- started wearing makeup
present/6th grade- miserable because of parents XD

Okay about the dance thing well I hate Hannah Montanna and so the
4th graders were dancing to Hannah Montanna and I started doing a stupid dance and made a huge scene :I (Well! I WAS 10)
And alot of PTA moms were there and saw me
because of that my mom started getting tons of angry e-mails and phone calls about me. And I’m hated so much I’m STILL not allowed to go to some parties because of that hate :(
Also I wore alot of studded jewelry (In 5th)

So (over the summer) I started reading the e-mails and listening in on the phone calls my mom (still) got about me

Heres what some of them said
- “Shannon wears to much black and jewelry.”, So I stopped wearing alot of black and jewelry
-”Shannon’s hair is too long”, So I got a hair cut
-”Shannon is too wild”, So now I’m alot calmer

I’ve even heard/seen myself been called an attention wh0re, mini emo girl, and distraction to the school.

Now I’m in middle school after all the changes I made to be accepted by the parents, I’m still hated by them!!!

Like it makes me so mad, because it’s not like their kids are a hell lot better than me!!
I rarely swear, I’ve always been an A student, I’m like 10x more polite than their kids!, and I’m 1st chair viola.

BUT NOOOOOOOOO! No matter how much I try to make the parents accept me they hate me!
NOW the problem is that I wear makeup! I listened to one of my moms phone calls with one of the parents and she said that I look like a pr0stitue! X(
That just makes me so mad! X((((((
My mom is pretty annoyed too!
WHAT CAN I DO TO BE ACCEPTED??!?!?!?!??!?!
(sorry for the misspellings I’m just so mad)
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]]> http://www.morningswithmom.com/2009/12/my-friendsother-parents-hate-me-10-points-pleeaaseee-read/feed/ 4 I don’t have the motivation to get stuff done! Any SAHM’s experience this? http://www.morningswithmom.com/2009/08/i-dont-have-the-motivation-to-get-stuff-done-any-sahms-experience-this/ http://www.morningswithmom.com/2009/08/i-dont-have-the-motivation-to-get-stuff-done-any-sahms-experience-this/#comments Sat, 01 Aug 2009 02:12:40 +0000 mom http://www.morningswithmom.com/2009/08/i-dont-have-the-motivation-to-get-stuff-done-any-sahms-experience-this/
Ok, I have anxiety and depression… but it has nothing to do with “not enjoying what you used to enjoy” – because this is just what I NEED to do. My house is a mess. Things are not very organized (they are in piles at best) – except for most of the closets.

I have 4 kids ages 7, 6, 2 & 7 mths. I have a job chart for them in the morning in which they get dressed, make beds, feed pets & other basic things. My husband is not great at helping out consistently, but occasionally, he tries. When the kids get home, sometimes I have them do clean ups, but only when I get a little motivated.

My husband is fed up with the mess and my lack of motivation to do it (or keep up with it!) – and I agree. I’m fed up too. But, I just don’t see the benefits of cleaning if it will just be messed up by my kids & husband by the end of the day.

I also struggle with making dinner because my husband is ULTRA picky and my kids are just kids. So, I have a hubby that eats a little, then eats some bread or whatever an hour later, and kids that complain and say how horribly gross it is. I end up eating half of the dish because I feel sad I spent the time to make it for just myself in the end. So, I don’t cook very often at all.

Has anyone EVER experienced this? What did you do to get over it? I’m going to counseling/therapy for my anxiety, and when I start, I plan on telling the therapist about this also.

HELP!
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