I was looking at my husband’s new myspace page and steam was coming out of my ears! First, it must be nice that he has all day to put fancy graphics and fonts on his page, but second who are all these women with their asses out trying to look sexy in there avatars? All of his contacts look like skanks! I found myself going through the list of them.
Jeanie (works with him at a college) – skank
Jenna4u69luv (don’t know who she is) – skank
Paula (PTA mom) – skank
Eddie (private eye) – jerk
Kryska (former nanny who I got deported) – skank
Mrs. Brenner (our kids school teacher) – prolly a skank
Gary (his friend) – male skank
ArtsyAllison (student of his) – skank
I almost called my husband in disgust right there. I didn’t even know he had a myspace page and I was joke poking around the Internet. But him and I are going through a reconciliation after I was stupid and cheated for awhile, so I’m trying not to seem overbearing.
Should I say something to him?
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Why does your hubby have a myspace?
Myspace is for kids. He should seriously grow up. And I bet a lot of them are skanks, lol.
EDIT–did I just read that you cheated? Maybe you need to look in the mirror to find the true skank. It’s always the cheater that thinks it’s the other one……..lol.
My husband doesn’t have a “myspace”….
….He is a “grown up big person”!
LOL!
If he is your husband, you need to know who ALL of his female friends are. Wow..you are handling this much better then I would. Me and my husband have a myspace page together, just for the simple reason that so much bullshit comes with a myspace page. You need to have his password to it…in a marriage you should have NOTHING to hide. Plus, why does he need to talk to a bunch of women? He is married! Sounds like a cheater to me.
About what because he has skanks on his myspace page? If you cheated then why cant he have a myspace page? It seems that you should add your own name to your list.
you cheated and your calling all these people shanks?.. even the males.. wow.. the pot calling the kettle black or what?..you are aware of the fact that some people can have friends with out opening their legs.. oops.. you cheated maybe not
Did he get this myspace page after you two separated? I think when people become single they need to reach out and meet new people and often myspace (or even YA) is a way to do that.
I think you can and should ask him about it. Given what you wrote I think you’ll just resent it more and more unless you try to resolve it.
The law of attraction.
It looks like he has legit reasons for knowing all of these people, who cares what they look like! You should trust him…especially seeing he’s giving YOU a second chance
Well first of all I think the myspace page is harmless compared to your cheating. I think that you need to think about it first. If you are wanting to reconcile with him then you need to not point fingers. He may not think of these people as skanks like you do. Just be glad that he is taking you back after cheating on him. Going into this with an attitude like this is only going to dig a deeper hole for you. Pick your battles wisely. You have been in the wrong, not him. Myspace is pretty harmless unless you are meeting up with these so called “skanks” and having affairs of your own. Think about it before you say anything to him.
Um, hate to say it, but chances are your significant other is cheating on you; if he’s not now, he will be shortly. I too was cheated on by my wife after 18 years of commitment (half my life), and it hit my like a ton of bricks. Although it was only an emotional internet affair, replete with cybersex (keyloggers are wonderful), I was broken… still am in many ways.
Two and a half years later, I’ve pretty much had it – I tried to forgive, and forget, but nothing seems to work; and am doing many of the things your husband is doing now… My situation is a little more tricky, mind you. I would have left my wife on the spot, if I didn’t already have two beautiful little children.
These women on his page? They’re all potential flings in the making… and trust me… the girls are out there that will have no problems taking care of him if you won’t (I speak from experience unfortunately). You either need to confront him, leave him, or let him burn it out of his system, however if you follow the latter advice, you may find yourself waking up one day with a burning urethra…
Good luck.
Not after you cheated. He will just throw it in your face. Get out of the relationship. It will never be a good one.
NO dont say anything at least not yet. Since your the one who cheated and he has the right to be upset more than you. As for them being skanks hmm it could be 1 of 2 things. 1:you are just really jealous and see them like that or they really are. seing the relationship he has with some of them it isnt likely all of them are skanks. 2: They really are skanks and he just fantasizes about or really is cheating on you (there is a difference). Since you openly admit to cheating on him im more inclined to think since you have commited the “crime” you are more willing to think he is cheating too so as to lessen your actions. I think its somewhere in between to be honest. But that could be why he has “skanks” as his friends i’d worry more about the ones you dont know who they are. but if anything you gave him the reason to cheat if he is…sorry its probably no the answer you wanted.
ummmm…and you cheated, and tell me again, WHO IS THE SKANK!?!
He must like skanks. What do you look like?
Oh wait I think I know.
I’m pretty sure his skank friends are probably a whole lot better that his cheating wife. Shakes head in disgust! Hopefully he will wise up and move on with his life.